In an ideal world, one wouldn't need to have a two way exchange every single time. However, given the culture all over the world, most guests like to bring a little something over to their host to show their appreciation.
What then is an ideal gift? In my mind, its one which the giver has put some thought into, and one which the receiver feels happy about and looks forward to experiencing/using.
Yesterday we had a fond farewell party for a dear friend who is leaving Hong Kong, and called a few mutual friends to have a small intimate party of 7. Two gifts we received are worth a special mention. Home baked scones! wrapped so prettily! complete with jam and marmalade! It ticked all my boxes and more: 1) gets used up and doesn't occupy valuable real estate space 2) is not yet another to add to my collectibles that just keep piling up 3) shows incredible thought on the part of my guests who know i love home made food 4) imagine the trouble they took to bake and find the appropriate packaging and even those small jam jars!
And the flowers alongside? What to say except that they made me happy indeed! Nature at her best, brings out the best in us as people. Dinner chez Vixabs definitely delivers...for Vixabs!
